What Anger Is All About
In these liberated times， men and women come
into my office and in the most matter-of-fact way
describe their sexual behavior. They talk about
techniques， positions， partners. They tell me
about their orgasms and their impotency， their
fantasies and their infidelities.
But when the talk turns to anger， many of these
same people clam up. Or else they squirm in their
chairs， gaze off into space and speak haltingly， hes-
itating over every other word. Often， shame and
embarrassment cloud the recounting of an angry
incident. And some people tell me they \"can t
even remember\" the last time they felt anger
(they ve pushed it so far down).
Sex and sexual feelings are okay now. Respect-
able， at least in the sense that most people can
own up to what they do and don t do， feel and
don t feel. But anger is the dirty word. The ob-
scene topic. The unacceptable， unrespectable feel-
ing.
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